Women and Church Eldership

Married women too need to be instructed — by Preachers like Timothy and by Diakonoi like Phebe — to "guide the(ir) house" alias to supervise their home. I Tim. 5:9-18 cf. Rom. 16:1-2. But the very same Paul who inspiredly wrote this, also inspiredly wrote and insisted that Christian "women keep silence in the churches (or meetings of the whole congregation). For it is not permitted them to speak" or to utter judgments about the messages, during the worship of the Congregation. "But they are commanded to be under obedience (or in subjection to male leadership), as also saith the Law [Gen. 2:18-25 & 3:16 & Isa. 3:12 & I Tim. 2:11-15]…. For it is a shame for women to speak in the church!" I Cor. 14:29-35.